and even when your hope is gone move along move along just to make it through...

For some reason there is so much drama. And theoretically there should be about 3 people involved but there seems to be more. Everyone is just so depressed and i feel like i can't do anything. I should be able to help but i don't know how. The situation seems complicated but is it so complicated that it takes over their lives and makes everyone so depressed? If so, then i should really try to help but i really don't know how. I guess my only advice would be to not dwell on it. I mean, I know things are really stressful, but that shouldn't ruin friendship or make things tense. Then again, I don't know enough about the situation to judge, but it really helps if you focus on the good things of a situation. I mean, things could be a lot worse. The person you love could be in a different country or hate you and then you lose most of the friendship you had with them... but thats another situation. ... Back to the subject of drama.  Well someone said that when you look at things from on top of a tall building, everyone looks so tiny, and those tiny people all have problems. And we all get caught up in these problems and never see the big picture and they don't see the good things they still have.

i guess that quote could help. I kind of changed the quote a little bit. But i think this drama is being fed by depression and some jealousy. And maybe some bad friendship on the guys part. I know it's awkward to talk to someone that you just find out likes you but ignoring them is just being a bad and selfish friend. Again I don't know enough about the situation to judge so I'm really sorry if this makes things worse. If it does then I'm a terrible friend :( . So I guess what I'm trying to say is that you shouldn't push problems to the back of your head but don't let them over rule your life and make you miserable; because if you do then you don't see all of the wonderful friends you have and how great you're life is. And if everyone else is depressed then be happy, laugh and make them be happy and smile again. I know it may not be that simple but you have to try right? Because doing nothing doesn't help. Sometimes making everybody laugh again is the answer to your problems. If everybody wallowed then everyone would be caught in their world of depression and getting other people caught in it. Well i hope this didn't make things worse. One more thing. Listen to Move Along by The All AMerican Rejects. And watch Kodocha. :) It might help.